Firstly, I'd like to say that I do not have 100% belief in theories about human beings, psychologically. Please do not get me wrong. I do understand and believe that those theories are very helpful in giving general pictures about individuals for making friends, relationship, leadership, medication and any other needs. Yes, they might be helpful yet should not be THE ONLY consideration. In fact, they can be very tricky sometimes.....so no wonder, we find this fact:
people get us wrong or we misunderstand others. The worst is we give wrong judgement which leads us to any futher wrong actions to the person!
Of course, it should not worry us or make us lose belief in those great people who either made or even proved the effectiveness of the theories. They deserve appreciation, anyway. However, if we are sure that everyone is unique and they have been created just as the Creator Himself, it means that we-as His creation-- must gain His "mysterious or secret values", too. That's why we are different in many ways and become a unique person. And even if sciencists and psychologists are able to describe and clasify our personality as "a person", the uniqueness of him/her will stay as a secret/mystery until they treat him/her JUST THE WAY he/she is, admit the fact that 75% (can be less or more) of the theories might work on him or her, but the rest remain unique and mysterious until we listen to his/her story-the story behind that story--even the story behind that former story. Listen to the whole stories, then we will see the red thread--which, believe me, will still keep mytery, no matter how bit it remains untold. Only God knows, so we'd better not "playing being God". We might know nothing, instead.
That's why nothing is absolute, absolutely ;-)
I wrote this, because:
I, --as many other people-- have met the same people for years: kids/teenagers who then grow up, adults, even old people who then change (for any reasons).....
Some of them have the same date of birth/zodiac signs/Chinese zodiac/Javanese zodiac/other astrological calculations plus the same blood type, combined with their fingerprint tests and other different test results.....yet we found "something" missing or does not really fit. Then some arguments (or justification?) come up that what is reported is the basic charateristics of the person, which--no matter how hard the person has tried to improved his quality as a person--in a very very very urgent situation he will become/get back to the "REAL him". Well, that's is possible, but......why do not we try to appreciate the person quality at the present time without being haunted by his "real basic nature"? Because God has created us as one package with our own free will, which means, we are blessed to control ourself. This include the fact that we are "the master" of our basic nature/characteristics.
So, as the master, we have full right TO CHANGE ourself, TO BE a NEW one, TO BE BETTER, no matter how bad (according to OTHER human beings) our "basic" quality as a person is. And when we have decided to change-and we DID it, when someone has decided to change himself and he did it....do others have right to judge his quality SOLELY based on his BASIC nature???
Again, that's is possible that someone who has "changed", has tendency to get back to his basic nature in a very urgent situation or when he is under very extreme pressure, BUT, remember:
nothing is absolute, and we are the master of our basic nature.
It means....in a very extreme situation, someone possibly becomes extremely different, acts extremely different from we might expect??? Only God knows.
It also means.....we will never know, when God really really helps people to change, allows His creature to gain better quality. And when He does, do we still have right to see and judge someone else based on his PAST while he has truly become a "Present" person, a new individual, with better quality as a person.
I wrote this, because:
I, --as many other people--might have been the "victim" of such judgement covered by scientific spiritual justification.
I wrote this, because:
I, --as many other people-- might do the same to others...It means, I am still a human and honestly, I have no intention to be another God ;-)
I wrote this, because:
I, --as many other people--have to keep learning not to act being God to others....yeah, we know, it's hard but NOT impossible, isn't it?
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